Proper fingering must be skillful. In thought, the finger is simply pushed into the anus and then it fits. In reality, however, it takes a lot more. Sensitivity and good preparation should never be ignored.
The anus is a pure nerve center. Therefore, sexual desire can also be well controlled anally. The anal massage is very attractive for the man and the woman. The nerve center is similar in both sexes.
The man still has the advantage of having a prostate. This can be perfectly stimulated when fingering the ass.
Fingering the buttocks in women
Anal fingering in women is a little different than in men. If you want to spoil your partner anally, then you need a lot of sensitivity. Approach with a little caution and play around the desired zone first. It is best to use a special anal gel as an aid.
You don't have to penetrate deeply, because the main nerves are located directly at the anus. You can also massage and finger the lady vaginally beforehand. This way you can slowly move to the back of the body. From front to back is optimal.
But please never go back from the back to the front. That is, if you have fingered her anally, you have nothing more to do with this finger in the vagina. Otherwise you risk that your partner gets an infection.
Finger in the man's anus
Not every man is immediately ready to have something pushed in the back. Even a little finger is too much for some men. So go ahead with the man with a lot of sensitivity and tenderness. You can start with a normal back massage.
Let this become a butt massage in the course of time. Then you can gently approach the anus. At first, massage only the anus and play around it a little. If you notice that your partner remains relaxed, you can put your finger in his butt.
The man is lucky enough to have a prostate. You can apply light pressure to it with your finger. He will enjoy it!
Cleanliness and aids
Anal fingering can be a good preparation for anal sex. However, it can also just be a great addition. In any case, cleanliness and aids are necessary for it to really bring pleasure.
Cleanliness is obvious. But also remember that your bowels should be empty. You can do a colonic irrigation beforehand. There are corresponding intimate showers and co for it.
So that the penetration remains painless, the anus should be made supple. You can do this with special anal lubricants.
How do you finger yourself?
Of course, the position of your body is important. Fingering yourself anally can require some flexibility. For example, it works very well if you lie on your stomach with your buttocks slightly elevated. But it also works in the supine position with your legs over your head. In this way, you can directly stretch the buttocks and get to the desired part of the body.
The Internet can offer you help in the form of videos. If you like watching porn, take the opportunity to look for explicit finger games there.
Otherwise, just try it out!
How to finger correctly?
Always make sure that your partner is really comfortable with your finger in the butt. Feel your way with sensitivity and above all have short well-kept fingernails!
At first, the finger should only apply gentle pressure to the anus. The pressure can be increased slowly, pumping until the finger then slides in. In men, the stimulation is very high because the prostate is found very far in front. It is not important to penetrate as deep as possible, but to find the right spot.
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Fingering women properly
When fingering a woman, the following has top priority: from front to back yes, from back to front no! So you may finger her vaginally and then move to the anus, but never the other way around, otherwise you risk infections of your partner.
