Rapeplay is a very fiery love game. It is about dominance and submission. Rape means rape and play means to play. It is therefore rape play and not real abuse!
Rape play is often played out in a BDSM session with a partner. It combines several fetishes. For example, the bondage fetish, the nylon fetish and the pain fetish can be integrated into the abuse games.
The rape fantasy can always go as far as both participants really want it to.
Abduction games of a special kind
Abduction games are exciting role-playing games in which unexpected twists and turns can occur. Rapeplay can be agreed in advance. But it's much more fun if the course of events is simply unplanned.
Of course, you can 't just kidnap, tie up and "rape" your partner unexpectedly. Of course, this MUST be agreed beforehand. Talk about when and how the scenario should take place beforehand.
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Then just get started. It is important that nothing is done that the other person does not want.
Come up with a code word
Before you get into the rape play BDSM session speak a code word. If the chosen word is called out, it is a sign that the other person no longer wants it, that it is getting too intense. Please pay attention to this and stop.
Otherwise the rape play fantasy will turn into bitter seriousness. If you like it, everything else can be practiced. From bondage to torture and even minor injuries. However, the code word, i.e. the safe word, must always have an immediate effect. In everything you do!
Rapeplay important points
Rapeplay is a fetish that is much loved, but should also be treated with a lot of respect. There are many points to bear in mind so that no one gets into real fear or danger. The fantasy of being raped can be very arousing. However, acting it out carries a certain risk if all the important points are not observed and adhered to.
The topic of rape play should be approached with a great deal of caution. Everyone has their secrets and their past. If your partner has a violent past that you don't know about, the topic of rape play is very difficult to broach. So approach it gently and ask carefully.
As with many fetishes, it is also important with rape play that you know and trust each other. The more familiar you are with each other, the more unusual and violent the rapeplay can be.
Violence must not really take place, everything must be consensual. Brutality is acted out, but never actually carried out. Pain is allowed, but only to a limited extent.
Rapeplay in public
No one may be hurt, this refers in particular to the point at which the "victim" is penetrated. Forcible penetration is only acted out in the rape play. Lubricant or other moisturizing aids may still be used.
Let the public out! Rape play or rape play gives a special kick when it happens in public.
However, this is not advisable at all, as outsiders do not realize that it is just a game. They could also be triggered and suffer psychological damage. Even if it is a very intense fetish, neither participants nor outsiders should have negative experiences with it.
Conclusion
Last but not least, don't forget to make up a safeword. A certain word puts an immediate end to the rape game.
- Discuss with caution
- Never with strangers
- Violence is just an act
- No rape play in public
- Make out safeword / traffic light words
