Not only since 50 Shades of grey the interest in the field of BDSM has grown. The game of power and submission and the resulting pleasure appeals to many a beginner. But entering the BDSM scene is often treacherous and difficult. Those who only know the scene from movies or books often serve every cliché. With our BDSM tips, you can make your entry into the BDSM scene much easier and more effective.
How to find like-minded people on the net
The internet offers the perfect opportunity to find similarly interested people even as a BDSM beginner. One of the best known platforms in the German-speaking area is the Sklavenzentrale. Here you will not only find a comprehensive partner exchange in the field of BDSM, but also a lot of information on various topics.
Get to know people
Through the different platforms you can get to know people with similar interests and exchange ideas with them. Take your time and get to know the different people, game types and interests. However, always remember that you are only talking to an online personality. It is best to avoid direct one-on-one meetings.
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Use the security of the group
Regulars' tables are a good way to get in touch with people interested in BDSM in real life. You can also find such regulars' tables via Slave Central. If you don't know how such a regulars' table works, just ask a participant online. Most BDSMers are happy to accept newcomers and beginners and will help you with questions without any problems.
Language codes: Unimportant and rarely helpful
There are many terms in the field of BDSM, which describe the most different kinds of games and forms of BDSM. In the course of time you will learn them automatically, but for the beginning these terms are more than unimportant. The only important terms are top and bottom and dom and sub. These describe whether you want to play the active or the passive part, so whether you are dominant or rather submissive. All other types of play usually arise in conversation with the play partner.
Find your role
BDSM also means sexual freedom. You alone define your role and determine what comes into question for you. Do not follow stereotypes, but simply reinvent yourself.
The safeword: cliché or important tool?
A safeword is important. It doesn't even have to be a word, but a clear signal to your partner that you want to stop the game. For this reason, you should always communicate this factor clearly. Only in this way you can enjoy the sessions and experience with each other safely.
BDSM as a craft: Learning at workshops
Many games in the field of BDSM require experience to be performed safely. Whether bondage games or clinic games, without experience many things can quickly become problematic. If you know your interests, workshops are a great way to learn from experienced players. It's easy to find the right workshop for you.
Dieser Artikel ist eine großartige Ressource für alle, die neu in der BDSM-Szene sind. Die Tipps sind sehr hilfreich und decken eine breite Palette von Themen ab, die für Anfänger relevant sind.
Ich möchte hinzufügen, dass es auch hilfreich sein kann, sich mit BDSM-Literatur und -Theorie zu beschäftigen. Es gibt viele Bücher und Online-Ressourcen, die einen tieferen Einblick in die Philosophie und Praxis von BDSM geben können. Dies kann helfen, ein besseres Verständnis für die Dynamik und die psychologischen Aspekte von BDSM zu entwickeln.
Außerdem ist es wichtig, sich daran zu erinnern, dass es in Ordnung ist, seine Grenzen zu erkennen und zu respektieren. Nicht alle Praktiken oder Szenarien sind für jeden geeignet, und es ist wichtig, auf die eigenen Gefühle und Reaktionen zu achten. BDSM sollte immer eine positive und bereichernde Erfahrung sein.
Insgesamt ist dies ein ausgezeichneter Leitfaden für jeden, der sich für BDSM interessiert und mehr darüber erfahren möchte. Danke für das Teilen!