Switch means to change. If you are a switcher in BDSM, it means that you like to switch roles. Short and sweetly explained, switch means to be sometimes dominant and sometimes submissive. Yes, this can actually be possible and exerts a very special charm. You don't have to commit yourself at all. Also in BDSM you can always be what you want. So be a BDSM Switcher full of lust and passion!
What is a Switcher
You are not quite clear what a switcher is? Then here comes a more detailed explanation. Especially in BDSM there is almost always a dominant part and a submissive part. The roles are firmly distributed, everyone remains in his element. Unless you are a BDSM switcher! Because then you are not in the same position in every session.
There are sessions in which you dominate, but there are also sessions in which you are submissive. As a switcher you have the possibility to let off steam and feel comfortable in all sexual areas.
Switching is also possible in one and the same session. So you can dominate first and suddenly your sub resists so much that you are then the submissive part. But here there must be a terrific harmony between the parts. Only rarely is the role exchanged within a BDSM session.
Switching with partner or without?
Now the big question is, what is the best way to switch? Can a switcher switch roles with his steady partner or does he have to have changing partners to be able to slip into new roles? It works both ways!
Well, sure, with a steady partner it can be more difficult to switch roles. Here it is already advantageous if both parts are switchers. In this way, you can really let off steam in a fixed partnership. If you don't have a steady partner, you can always look for the right part.
If he wants to offer himself as a bunny, he looks for his dominant part. But if you want to be the hard unsoft part, which maybe also inflicts pain, you have to look for a slave. There is enough of everything in the world, you just have to look in suitable kink forums and get to know the appropriate people.
A person with many faces
Switch BDSM = all possibilities! You are a switcher? Then you are a person with two faces, if not even more. Because you can be the devoted, begging part, but you can also be just as loving and devoted.
But then you can also be the despising, pain-bringing, torturing part. You can go from being the tied up to being the captivating person.
You can be Sugar Daddy or Mommy, but you can also let out a childish side. As a Switcher, you can do just about anything!
Knowing if you are a Switcher
You can easily tell if you are a Switcher. You love to submit to your partner, but you also have the urge to show him that he can be brought down? Then congratulations you are a switcher!
If you wear the pants at home during sex and say where it goes, you might as well dream about being the "victim" in a rape play. You can also tell if you are a switcher from dreams.
Don't hold back, because repressed desires only get stronger. Talk to your partner about your desires and try yourself out together with him/her.
