The degradee is the submissive part in all respects. This is a person who feels pleasure when he is humiliated or degraded. This is about humiliation for pleasure.
Because exposing, insulting or similar, usually leads to sexual pleasure gain, which can be increased to the almost immeasurable.
Degradee Meaning
Degradee is a word from English and means subjugated or humiliated. It is about degrading you as a degradee, to reduce you, to dishonor you. You will never get to power in the games in this position.
But you don't want this either, because you are only too happy to endure all this and even enjoy it. In BDSM, degradee is a term that occurs in power games. The degradee can come along in different roles. For example as a slave, sub or brat.
Who is suitable for degradee
If you like to submit to others and at best feel sexual pleasure when you are punished, humiliated or embarrassed, then you are very well suited to be a Degradee. This is a kink that is not that rare.
Even in harmless role-playing games, there is usually a dominant and a submissive part. So the sex can go even with little things already in the direction of degradee and degrader. Maybe you only want to be the degrader during sex.
This is also perfectly fine. There is nothing against it, that you have professionally maybe even a leading position. It doesn't have to be your whole life, but may well be just a kink.
Possible games
There are many possible love games in which you can act out as a Degradee. Role-playing games of various kinds are well suited. A visit to a dominatrix can come into question, as well as bondage games or even rape play. There are gentle methods but also really hard BDSM sex games.
In principle, the imagination may once again be given free rein.
If you only want to be physically humiliated, shackles and gags are ideal, as well as whips and co. If you want to be humiliated in public, outdoor role-playing games in which you are put on a leash, among other things, are recommended.
But also laughing and insulting can lead to great joy in a degradee. Here, too, can be well acted psychologically and physically.
Take care of each other
You as the submissive part must always take good care of yourself. If something does not feel good, it must be stopped. So it is important that you talk to your degrader beforehand. You have to discuss in which direction the kink is allowed to go and what is too much.
Make up a safe word, additionally agree on a word, if it should be only a little bit milder. It does not always have to be completely stopped.
Just as important as the agreements in advance, is the aftercare. Physical injuries must be taken care of. Psychologically, the degradee must be absorbed. Talking a lot and showing appreciation are usually very important for the degrader after each session.
