The ruined orgasm can be very frustrating, but is still a popular practice in the BDSM scene. When an orgasm is ruined, it doesn't mean that you haven't come. You already have your orgasm. But this one is anything but satisfying. You can't satisfy your desire with it and that's exactly the purpose of it.
What happens with a ruined orgasm?
You start with pleasure and great horniness. Your body and your psyche are very much looking forward to the liberating orgasm that you know and love during sex. But it does not come so far. Your horniness is stopped prematurely and in a mostly nasty way.
Normally, the way to orgasm is a steep staircase upwards to climax. With ruined orgasms, however, the way goes steeply up and then falls down all of a sudden, all the way to the basement!
You come, the man in the case can even cum. Nevertheless, the pleasure remains, the release is missing, the muscles in the intimate area tense up, which can also become quite painful. The person, i.e. the sub / bottom, is irritated to the "point of no return", only to be stopped.
How can a ruined orgasm be achieved?
There are so many methods to achieve the goal of ruined orgasms. Be creative, let the games begin! If you lack the creativity, just read on and feel free to try out what you've read afterwards.
Irritation through erotic touching is one way.
In particular, some women have such a strong effect on the man that he almost climaxes at the mere sight of them. Dance erotically around him, strip and give him light, casual touches. You can increase all this with a lap dance. Challenge him, tease him to the point of no return and then just leave him!
Another option is, of course, seduction with your hand. Start jerking him off. You can always tell very well when there is no return. And bang, fingers away from the tail!
After the stimulation to the point of no return, you can also pinch his testicles or in the case of a woman, you can also hit the vagina.
Sex toys can also be used. Prostate massages quickly lead to success. There are fantastic anal dildos, plugs or even stimulation current toys.
No matter how you do it, pay attention to the signs of your play partner so that you don't miss the right moment.
Does the ruined orgasm work for both sexes?
Here there is a very clear yes! Not only a man can be led to a ruined orgasm, but also the woman. However, with the woman the signs of the point of no return are more difficult to recognize.
The partner must know the woman very well to recognize when she reaches climax. In general, however, it is possible for both sexes to reach orgasm through pain, distraction, or simply taking your fingers away.
In men, it is a wonderful goal to see the precum find its way out. The sweet penis juice is very popular and tempts to give your partner another ruined orgasm right away.
And yes of course, the procedure can be repeated several times, up to the dry, really painful orgasm.
