Wax games are just as tingling and delightful for friends of S&M as they are for many other couples who want to enjoy the excitement of hot candle wax on their skin. The tingling mixture of tension and variable pain makes wax games for many people a real highlight in bed.
Above all, it is important that you observe the important safety rules when playing wax games, so that you and your partner can enjoy these games to the fullest.
Wax games: The allure of hot wax
Wax games fit into both a gentle and a BDSM setting. In both cases, candles are not only beautiful props, but can also be used directly for wax play. The flickering light of the candles also provides a suitable ambience and can improve and lift the mood in the long term.
However, when choosing the candles already pay attention to the most important safety rules. After all, you don't want to hurt your partner or be hurt by the candles and wax yourself. In addition, make sure that the candles are placed on a safe and stable surface. Having to extinguish the bedroom in the heat of the moment can dampen the mood immensely.
You can use these candles for wax games without any problems
At Steeltoyz you will find a range of candles that are specially designed for wax play. These candles have a lower melting temperature, so the temperature of the wax is much lower. Such candles are especially Beginners in the area of wax games, because you can get used to the right temperature and the right handling of the candles slowly and safely.
For Advanced and people who like to enjoy the pain more, such candles are, however, in most cases too harmless. Here it has proven itself to fall back on so-called grave lights. These candles produce an enormous amount of wax and are therefore predestined for wax games.
Large church candles are also great for wax games and can be used just like standard household candles.
Caution
In any case, you should keep your hands off completely colored candles, aroma candles and especially beeswax candles. The wax temperatures of such candles can be extremely high and cause severe burns to the skin.
Even a large drip height can not safely minimize the risk. Therefore, you should forget the thought of wax games with these candles in any case.
Different ideas for wax games with your partner
You should try every candle and wax on your own house first, especially as a beginner. The inside of your forearm is particularly suitable for this. This way you can avoid burning your partner. Especially if you have a lot of body hair, waxing can become uncomfortable when the wax dries.
It is best to shave the areas in advance to be able to enjoy the wax games properly. Basically, you should cream or oil the skin before you start waxing. This will not only make it easier to remove the wax later, but will also dampen the temperature of the wax a bit.
If you want to enjoy the wax play especially, the passive part should wait for the wax blindfolded. You can also alternate wax and ice cubes or ice cold water to increase the tension again. Just use your imagination to think of different ways to play wax games.
However, you should always drip the wax slowly and with a certain time interval on the same part of the skin. Small lakes and areas of wax are often too painful, especially for beginners.
After the game: How to get rid of the wax
If the wax is spread on the body, it must also be removed again. Many people also include this in the erotic game and remove the wax, for example, by lightly beating it with their hand or a riding crop. Especially with wax on the back and buttocks a very common method.
If you want to get rid of the wax after the game, a cold shower helps. Cold wax is much easier to remove. You can now simply nibble the wax from your body and remove it. Be sure to use a suitable base for your waxing games.
A lacquer bed sheet is ideal because the wax can be removed from the sheet very easily. So no traces of the wax games remain on the normal bed sheets or in the apartment.
Wax games will inspire you if
- You like light or strong pain during sex
- You love the feeling of hot wax on your skin
- You want to give up control and surrender yourself
- You want to inflict gentle pain on your partner
If you are interested in wax games in their various forms, at Steeltoyz you will find everything for a quick and easy entry into the world of wax games. Starting from special candles for beginners to matching lacquer bed sheets for more safety and comfort during wax games.
Just grab it and prepare for a perfect experience. Surprise your partner with a new experience or experience the hot wax on your skin yourself.
In dieser Anleitung sind wirklich wertvolle Tipps zu finden.
In dieser Anleitung sind wirklich wertvolle Tipps zu finden. Danke hierfür von mir und meiner Sub.
Ich beschäftige mich schon seit einiger Zeit mit dem Bereich SM und bin als "Top" schon in den Genuss verschiedener Sessions gekommen. Dabei spielt für mich bei der Bestrafung vor allem das psychologische Momentum eine wichtige Rolle. Dazu habe aktuell eine Sklavin, welche sich von mir mit viel Hingabe dominieren lässt, aber bisher vor Schmerzen noch immer sehr stark zurückschreckt. Mehr als die flache Hand oder mal ein sehr fein dosiertes Paddel konnte ich hier noch nicht anwenden.
Vor Wachsspielen hatte ich bisher immer einen Heidenrespekt, da mir ein damaliger Freund erzählt hatte, wie er einmal von seiner Freundin massiv verbrannt worden ist. Nicht aus böser Absicht, sondern einfach weil das Wachs viel zu heiß für ihn war.
Nach Eurer Anleitung habe ich mich jetzt einmal selber mit Kerzen für den BDSM-Bedarf eingedeckt und diese zunächst an mir getestet. Eindeutig erträglich, wenn man ein wenig Abstand hält. Und für meine Sklavin war es eine echte Überraschung, als ich sie mit verbundenen Augen das erste Mal mit dem Wachs in Berührung gebracht habe. Diese Ungewissheit und Spannung, wenn die Sklavin nicht weiß, wann die Kerze das nächste Mal tropft und wohin ich die Tropfen lenke.... einfach genial. So kann eine Session richtig lange genossen werden, ohne dass die Spannung abfällt oder dass die Sklavin sich ablenken ließe.
Dazu habe ich noch einige Anregungen aus eurem Artikel übernommen und für mich und meine Situationen umgewandelt. Ich muss allerdings sagen, dass ich immer noch alle Kerzen zunächst an mir selber teste. Ich denke das ist etwas, dass Ihr unbedingt noch in Euren Ratgeber mit aufnehmen solltet. Denn nur wenn man weiß, wie sich die Schmerzen anfühlen, kann man die Kerzen und das Wachs auch richtig und kontrolliert einsetzen.