Cuckold education - here's how to do it right

If you plan to cuckold your partner, then you need to get it right from the start. If mistakes creep in, your plan may fail. There are certain points, like a guide of sorts, that you can follow to get everything right, just keep reading, learning and then diligently practicing ...

Gather information about Cuckold

First of all, it's important that you get the right information. What is cuckold anyway? Can any man be made to do it? Are there different types, different ways? You can get all this information on the Internet, or exactly with us in these and other articles on the subject of Cuckold.

Of course, you don't have to learn anything by heart. It's enough if you just read a little bit, maybe even save the article to be able to read it step by step again and again. Hey, we are here to help you.
If you are sufficiently informed, you can quickly educate your husband towards cuckold. Maybe he won't even notice it in the beginning if you do it cleverly. So let's get started!

What is cuckold?

The most important thing is to know what cuckold is. Surely you have at least a rough idea, otherwise you wouldn't consider moving your man in this direction. With a cuckold partner you can live out your sexual fantasies very well. Especially if you dream about having sex with strangers or even with people you know who think the same way as you do.

Normally, your partner would run away or suggest a threesome. But of course you don't want all that. He should just watch! Watching how you do it with another, whose penis is in the best case even better built than that of your partner.

Cuckold is a great mix of voyeur, humiliation and sexual restraint. There are several ways to live out this dream. New play scenes can arise every time, which increases the pleasure of all involved.

Go the education to the Cuckold

Step one: Use the man's lust

Your secret fantasies must no longer remain secret. Your partner also has fantasies that he doesn't want to express. Mostly they are about a threesome, group sex or even violent orgies. Hardly any man doesn't dream of just being allowed to give in to his urges. You need to catch the right moment to get his secret lusts out of him and tell him your desires. What could be a better moment than just before orgasm?

Give your partner a tender full body massage, with a happy ending. But just before the happy ending, you tell him in the most tender voice that you have already thought about swinging or swapping partners. Exactly at that moment you should let him come. Because through the orgasm he connects your words with something positive.

Use such opportunities again and again to throw little wishes at him. Also ask him if he has ever thought of something like this or something similar. Keep talking in this direction when you are experiencing your most intimate moments. Gradually, you can include the topic in everyday life.

Soon the point will come when he will bring up the subject himself, without you stroking his penis. Be patient. The topic must be addressed, but not too head-on and directly. Something like this takes time and can drag on for a while. But your patience will be rewarded.

Also try to appear a little innocent. You can't help your dirty thoughts, what can you do about what your private parts want? This helplessness makes the man horny and also provides great understanding, because with men it is often the penis that does the thinking.

Step two: Set rules, but stay gentle

Once your fantasies have been spoken out loud, you just have to move your partner in the right direction. Under no circumstances should he think that he is allowed to sleep with other women. Sure, there are also the so-called cuckqueans, but you don't want to become a submissive spectator, but you want to be allowed to live out your urges.

So nothing is with partner exchange. These initial statements were only meant to arouse his attention. Besides, he already had the idea in his head that you sleep with someone else. They were gentle hints, pointing away, but nothing more.
In order to steer his thinking away towards swingers, you now need to establish rules. These should be clearly defined but, without immediately setting up strict punishments for violations. First only the rules, nothing more!

You choose yourself what you want as rules for him. You long to be satisfied more orally? Then set this as a rule. He must learn to lick you until you come!

Masturbating together can be another rule. This way you both have your pleasure without actually making love. Look yes, touch no! Everyone touches only his own body.

Porn ban, unless you are allowed to watch, is also a great rule. Because this way you can determine what kind of porn is watched. There are fantastic cuckold videos to discover on the internet. Take this opportunity to observe your partner's reaction.

An important rule is the orgasm ban. He is not allowed to come for several days (you alone decide how many). Don't make it so difficult for him in the beginning and keep the time short.

Sextoys should now be part of your life. Just because he is not allowed to come, you do not have to do without. Buy a great fucking machine or some nice dildos and vibrators. With these he can satisfy you nicely.

Sleeping naked is also a rule that is even followed with pleasure. From now on there is only the bed sheet and the blanket. Any other fabric is prohibited. You both will love the feeling of naked skin in fresh bed linen, and so the private parts are always ready for little games. Or good for learning to do without.

No sperm is simply disposed of! Just flush the sperm down the toilet? No, those days are over. With pleasure he should take his own sperm. Everything is recycled. Because the sperm is his most precious good.

Step three: ruin orgasms

You mustn't overwhelm your man right away. Don't threaten him with punishment for not following the rules. There are other, gentler ways. The ruined orgasm! Nothing is so gentle but, effective as that! First, he will promise you to abide by everything you have set up as rules.

Initially, however, he cannot and will not succeed at all. If you punish him immediately with harsh measures, he will lose interest in this game.

Ignore his misbehavior at first and continue as if nothing had happened. At the right moment you will ruin his orgasm! Starting with pinching his testicles, up to leaving him alone just before, everything is open to you and your imagination to make him come only with pain or not at all.

As a result, he becomes very aware of how precious a full orgasm is and how precious semen can be. There is a wonderful interplay for you from the submissive part to the dominant role. More and more your partner will subordinate himself to you.

You don't have to be afraid for your relationship. On the contrary, your partner will focus more and more on you and pay attention to what you need and want. This applies not only to sexual preferences, but also to everyday life. So feel free to indulge yourself in every situation of life.

Step four: Punish him

If the ruined orgasms thing works out well, you've got him right where you want him. Now it's time to think about real punishments. Ordering and executing punishments will get you sexually aroused and also make him even hotter for you.

The orgsamus ban can now be extended. Instead of just two or three days, it can now be seven days or even up to fourteen days.

He will now have to practice licking even more. Your vagina must always be licked clean by him. Sperm is not wiped away, but licked off. He may also clean used toys with his tongue afterwards. These licking games make his tongue more and more practiced, which benefits you.

The porn is also intensified now. Instead of the female sex, there will be more and more penises. Watch cuckold videos and creampie porn.

If there is a rule violation, it must now be punished properly. The orgasm renunciation alone is not enough now. Start bringing his nipples into play. If he violates any of your established rules, attach clamps, weights or electrosex toys to his nipples. Don't be afraid to make him feel pain.

Penis bondage is also a cool way of punishment. Feel free to look for various penis cages and co. You will need them to restrain your guy. The punishments have the consequence that your sex life becomes more exciting and varied, even if you already have many years together behind you.

You will let new fire into the old familiar game. You may satisfy yourself more often, but if the man has to watch, it is twice as horny.
And every now and then there may be a reward for him. Cuckold does not mean that you don't let him have sex with you anymore. Of course, he may continue to have sex with you, but in a different way.

Step five: Get him excited about foreign sperm

Over time, your partner will become an enthusiastic cuckold and even love it when you call him one in public. All that you've done with him so far has been a learning process. You have now taught him that it is to be aimed to prevent the orgasms on his part.

Just cumming, after all, anyone can do. He will also love licking out your vagina, including ejaculate by now. Now it's time to make his secret fantasy come true. Every man who has ever tasted his own sperm becomes curious about foreign sperm.

How does it feel, how does it taste? Now you get your chance to get another man into bed with you. Let him watch, maybe even let him play with himself a little. However, you'll only have sex that day with the other guy whose sperm is swallowed or licked by your man.

Step six: Important accessories

Your man will love you hot and hard. For him you are the hotwife par excellence. Now it's high time to become that too. Go shopping and get a new outfit. Show what you have and wrap your body in sexy lingerie, in hot leather clothes or even snazzy costumes.

In addition, the anklet is also an important accessory. Only insiders who are familiar with this sex practice will know what it is all about. An anklet is no longer just a piece of jewelry.

It shows others from this S&M area that you are in a cuckold relationship or just interested in one. The anklet should be worn on the right ankle.

Dildos are also part of your life now. Get yourself strong dildos in an appealing size. Preferably larger than your cuckold's penis. Use it as if it were your lover, your horny friend who is allowed to give it to you anytime and anywhere. No one is as great as this dildo! Your partner will go mega wild for it and enjoy it with special exstasy at the next opportunity

Level seven: Dirty Talk

Now you've won! You have a fully trained cuckold at your side. Enjoy it though, don't let it drag. In order to avoid boredom, you have to keep getting your cuckold hot. This means sexual work for you that will make you hot as a rat.

A great way to get your cuckold horny for you is dirty talk. Send him dirty messages or even some horny pictures. Creampie pictures or gifs are always very effective.
If you have made him hot by messages, do not let him at home but immediately ran. First he has to give you a bath, wash you, cream you afterwards, massage you, lick you. Get creative and give him new challenges and tasks.

Conclusion

It can take up to a year to complete cuckold training. However, this also includes information gathering and reading. In order for your cuckold to remain one, you must remain creative and constantly reinvent rewards and punishments.

It is especially important that your relationship was strong before and that you have mutual trust. Apart from the knowledge about cuckold, you need a certain dominance. Together you can create a beautiful imaginative sex world.