In the sex scene, there are so many insane terms with which most people can do nothing. Even with the normal sex positions, many men and women have a big question mark over their heads when they hear the terms. In the fetish scene, however, is then still properly talked shop and thrown around with technical terms.
For the lover of the normal all words with which he can do nothing. For people from the BDSM scene but interesting and worth knowing. Also in the area of cuckolding there are many terms that are not immediately obvious and need explanation. This we want to offer you here now.
Cuckolding
The word cuckolding alone does not immediately reveal what it is. Most people know that it is a sex practice. But only a few know what exactly it is.
Cuckolding is an English term derived from the German word Kuckuck.
A cuckoo lays its eggs in foreign nests. The foreign birds then have to raise the chicks. In cuckolding, it is often the case that the woman has children by other men, but her own partner raises them. Of course, cuckolding does not only involve raising foreign children.
It is the partnership between a hotwife and a cuckold. The cucki is submissive and the woman is dominant. This runs through the sex life and also through the cohabitation. Cuckolding can be practiced in different classifications (C1, C2, C3).
You can find an extensive blog post about cuckolding and what exactly it is on our corresponding blog pages.
Cuckold
In the cuckold relationship the male submissive part is called cuckold. So the actual life partner. This has to do what the woman demands. Depending on the classification, it is limited to the sex life or the complete life together. The cuckold is also called cuck or cucki.
Cuckquean
When talking about a cuckquean, the woman is the submissive part. She lets herself be enslaved, so to speak, and the man is her master and determiner. He determines over her which form of sex she may / must have. Here, too, there are corresponding levels that decide whether she is a cuckquean only during sex or in the complete relationship.
Hotwife
If the woman calls herself a hotwife, she is the dominant, leading part of a cuckold relationship. She is also referred to as a cuckoldress. She has the fulfilling sex while the cucki is only allowed to watch and "suffers" from sex deprivation.
Bulls
In cuckolding, bulls are very important. They are more muscular, attractive and in every way more attractive than the cuckold. big penises and real power are what the Bulls must bring. They have sex with the hotwife while the life partner/husband watches, takes pictures and videos or may be allowed to play with themselves.
Lover
Lovers are also popularly brought into the game. They are handled similar to Bulls, so they serve to have sex with the Hotwife. However, Lovers are handled more anonymously than Bulls and do not have to be attractive either. They just have to be able to offer plenty of sperm. They should inseminate the Cuckoldress as much as possible everywhere and then they can leave directly.
BBC
BBC is a term that often comes up when it comes to Bulls. Because it means Big Black Cock. In German: Big black penis. Many Bulls have a dark skin color because these are simply the men with the best equipment. So BBCs are very popular when it comes to cuckolding.
Alpha Bull
The BBC men are usually the Alpha Bulls as well. Every cuckold couple has an Alpha Bull. This one is the most muscular, biggest and best looking man among the Bulls and of course has the biggest penis to offer. He calls the shots during sex and only reluctantly tolerates other Bulls.
Cunnilingus
The cunnilingus should be mastered by every cuckold. This is oral sex. The cucki should be very skillful with his tongue, be able to irritate clit and labia so that the woman comes to orgasm. For the cucki a humiliating "work".
Creampie
Creampie is also again from English and means something like cake with cream filling. In the BDSM scene, a fully inseminated woman is called a creampie. In a cuckold session, that's where bulls and lovers come in.
They squirt the woman full of their precious juice. She is inseminated externally and also filled properly. The cuckold may clean everything afterwards. However, not with rags or sponge, but with his own tongue.
Cumplay
Instead of just licking the hotwife clean, all the cum can also be used very well for a cumplay. Cum plays are very popular, but not for beginners. Instead of swallowing the sperm directly, it is passed from mouth to mouth. It is distributed on the body, collected with plates, spoons and co.
Cumcubes
Cumcubes can be used well for cumplays, if just no current insemination took place. Cumcubes are small frozen ice cubes of sperm. These can also come in the form of popsicles or in small ziplock bags. Cumcubes can be enjoyed directly frozen or thawed first.
Felching
Felching is similar to cunnilingus. The only difference is that it's not about bringing the woman to climax by stimulating the clitoris and labia minora. Felching is really about licking clean. The semen must be licked up completely. The cucki has to use his tongue skillfully to lick out the hotwife and absorb every single sperm.
Femdom
Let's move on to femdom. This is a sex practice in which the woman takes the dominance, She is in charge. She dominates the man and shows her dominance also in her style of dress, which is made of lacquer and leather. The man is enslaved and punished with shackles, whips and co. This is also lived out in a certain way during cuckolding.
Sextoys
Sextoys are toys for adults that spice up their sex life. When it comes to cuckolding, bondage toys are used a lot as well as toys for chastity and forced emasculation. There are prostate vibrators, dilators, penis cages and much more to discover to humiliate the man.
Also a Strapon Dildo is brought gladly times to the employment.
Of course, the Cuckoldress also has normalotoys like vibro eggs, dildos and vibrators. Because she is sex obsessed and likes to be pampered with them.
Gangbang
Sex toys are great to satisfy the hotwife. But much more horny is a real gangbang! The original meaning of gangbang is less nice, as it means something like gang rape. The sexual abuse of a woman by numerous men should only be lived out as a fantasy!
So is usually also the handling of a gangbang. The woman makes herself available to numerous men, who can do whatever they want with her. In cuckolding, such sessions occur frequently.
The bulls and lovers take the hotwife hard. The woman seems submissive. But she is not really, because she lives out her wildest fantasies and actually uses the men and not vice versa.
Code word traffic light
To a gangbang should also always exist a codeword traffic light. For wild sex practices, safe words must be agreed upon in advance. These are handled like a kind of traffic light. So the words green, yellow, red can also be used directly as corresponding code words. Green means that everything is fine. Yellow means that the woman is no longer feeling well. If she says red, the session must be ended directly, because it is no longer acceptable for the woman.
Submissive
Submissive means to be submissive. In cuckolding, the man is submissive and submits to the woman like a little puppy dog. He puts up with everything without fighting back. He obeys and does what he is told.
Dominance
Dominance means to rule over another, to be in charge. Cuckolding consists of dominance and submissiveness. The dominant part is the woman, who determines, dominates and also punishes.
Tease & Denial
Tease & Denial is a wonderful game in the life of cuckold couples. Here the partner is made hot with words and deeds. The woman can send sexy pictures to the man during her lunch break, send horny messages and start a little sex chat without letting him do it himself.
He should only be turned on, but not discharged.
At home, the woman can walk around in front of him in sexy lingerie or be completely naked without letting him get it on. This game can be continued at will and reinvented over and over again.
Chastity
Chastity means that the man is not allowed to discharge his sperm. He is not allowed to have sex, he is not allowed to make it himself. In Tease & Denial games this is very difficult. In order for him to comply, the woman can force him to be chaste. This is where penis cages come into play, for example.
BDSM
Cuckolding is one of many BDSM sex practices. BDSM means extreme sex, hard sex, so to speak. It is a term that comes from English. Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission. In German it means as much as bondage & discipline, dominance & submission, sadism & masochism.
There are still countless terms on the subject of BDSM in general. However, at this point you should only be familiarized with the terms around cuckolding. We wish you a lot of fun with the implementation and the living out of the practices behind the technical terms.
