Not everyone can or wants to live out their BDSM inclinations in their private environment. A visit to an appropriate studio can offer you the opportunity to live out your inclinations and turn the experiences in your head into reality. We'll show you the best way to prepare for your first visit to the studio.
Find a dominatrix that suits your inclinations and desires
BDSM is an enormously diverse field. From classic domination to role play and white eroticism, there are many BDSM styles offered by different studios and different dominatrices.
Find a studio that can cater to your personal preferences. Ideally, you can find out which lady caters to these preferences via the homepage or a phone call.
Clarify your wishes in advance
Many studios offer their customers a questionnaire to download. This deals with your sexual preferences and wishes and also includes your taboos. You can also be asked about any medical conditions. Take the time to fill out the questionnaire.
This will make it easier for the dominatrix to prepare and prevent you from getting confused during the preliminary talk or not being able to express your wishes properly.
Nervousness before the visit is perfectly okay
Practically everyone is nervous before an experience like this. Refrain from hiding your nervousness in drugs or alcohol. This is not only unhealthy, but can also spoil your date. Many dominatrices generally reject drunk or drugged clients. Instead, enjoy the anticipation and the slight nervousness.
Take time for personal hygiene
Ideally, the dominatrix should enjoy her work and her clients. Unhygienic looking and possibly sweaty smelling clients can quickly ruin this fun.
There are showers in practically every BDSM studio so that you can freshen up before the session, but a thorough shower at home is a matter of course for most visitors.
Here you can take your time and prepare for your visit. Think of it like preparing for a date.
Further preparations depend on your preferences
How you prepare yourself further depends not least on your wishes and preferences. If you want to have anal play or would like to be examined in white eroticism, you may want to prepare yourself with an enema.
If this is not possible in your home, simply discuss this with the studio in advance. A simple solution can usually be found. Perhaps the whole thing will also be incorporated into the joint game.
Be on time for your appointment
Dominatrixes and studios usually prepare thoroughly for an appointment. For this reason, courtesy alone dictates that you arrive on time for your appointment. If you realize that you will not be on time due to a traffic jam or other circumstances, simply call the studio.
It's usually not a problem, but an act of courtesy and good manners. Definitely a behavior that most dominatrices particularly appreciate from their clients.
The preliminary talk
Before the actual session begins, there is always a preliminary talk. Here you can hand your questionnaire directly to the dominatrix if you have not already sent it by e-mail. Also use the preliminary talk to clarify personal sympathy.
You can always listen to your gut feeling here. If you don't like the lady or the spark doesn't ignite, then just say so. No one will be offended, but you can look for alternatives in the studio if necessary.
Especially in games with a power imbalance, as is usual in BDSM, the personal sympathy must be right so that you can enjoy the session.
The financial side
As a rule and with most studios, you will also be told the price of the session during the preliminary talk. Ask if you have not understood something or if you are not clear about the service for the price. Normally, payment is made in advance.
However, in a good BDSM studio, you don't have to expect the typical brothel-style after-cooking. A fixed service is agreed for a fixed period of time and you can enjoy this service in peace and quiet without having to think about the cost of the whole thing.
Dieser Artikel ist eine großartige Ressource für alle, die sich auf ihren ersten Besuch in einem Domina-Studio vorbereiten. Die detaillierten Informationen und Tipps sind sehr hilfreich. Ein zusätzlicher Tipp, den ich hinzufügen möchte, ist, dass es wichtig ist, sich daran zu erinnern, dass es in Ordnung ist, nervös zu sein. Es ist eine neue Erfahrung und es ist normal, ein gewisses Maß an Aufregung oder Nervosität zu verspüren. Versuche, diese Gefühle als Teil der Erfahrung zu akzeptieren und sie nicht als etwas Negatives zu sehen.
Ich schätze die Betonung auf Körperhygiene und Pünktlichkeit in diesem Artikel. Diese Aspekte sind oft selbstverständlich, aber es ist gut, sie noch einmal zu betonen. Ein weiterer Tipp, den ich hinzufügen möchte, ist, dass es hilfreich sein kann, vor dem Besuch einige Atemübungen oder Entspannungstechniken zu üben. Dies kann dazu beitragen, die Nervosität zu reduzieren und sich auf die bevorstehende Erfahrung zu konzentrieren.
Dieser Artikel betont die Wichtigkeit des Vorgesprächs, was ich sehr schätze. Es ist wichtig, sich daran zu erinnern, dass das Vorgespräch eine Gelegenheit ist, Fragen zu stellen, Bedenken zu äußern und sicherzustellen, dass man sich mit der Domina wohl fühlt.
Ein zusätzlicher Tipp, den ich hinzufügen möchte, ist, dass es hilfreich sein kann, vor dem Besuch eine Liste von Fragen oder Bedenken zu erstellen. Dies kann dazu beitragen, sicherzustellen, dass man nichts Wichtiges vergisst zu besprechen.