Even if the diaper fetish is often assigned to the BDSM area, it hardly plays a significant role in Germany. Projections speak of a few thousand representatives with this preference in Germany.
We will show you how the diaper fetish manifests itself, how you can live it out and why this fetish is not pedophilia.
The diaper fetish as an object fetish
Similar to rubber or latex fetishists, there are also people who find diapers particularly desirable mainly because of their feel and sounds or because of their appearance.
Here, the diaper itself serves as the fetish object and the setting around the diaper is relatively indifferent to many of those affected. They wear the diaper themselves or the partner wears it and that is already enough to experience the desired sexual pleasure.
The diaper fetish as a behavioral fetish
The other area in the diaper fetish segment mainly concerns Adult Baby Play, which is a special type of sexual play. Here, a person assumes the role of a baby or toddler and thus has to wear the diaper, as the necessary toilet control has not yet been learned.
The Adult Baby area is often socially ostracized and is thus rarely acted out publicly. Here, the accusation of pedophilia is always in the room, even if this is basically negated by those involved. The Adult Baby lives out a completely different fetish.
The complete detachment from responsibility and the security with "mother" or "father" in role play can be completely savored as a baby. They are cared for and do not have to make their own decisions.
Thus, this diaper fetish is a particularly intense role play, which can even be operated asexually by many players. Thus, during the role-play, there is no significant sexual interaction between the game partners, as this would completely destroy the role.
Finding a partner with diaper fetish is enormously difficult
Since it is hardly possible to come out as a diaper fetishist without prejudice, many people in this field do not find a partner who shares the fetish or who wants or is able to take the other role.
For this reason, especially offers from the horizontal trade are used, which are tailored exactly to the Adult Baby. Here you can also determine exactly how far and to what extent the role play should take place.
Not every diaper is connected with the fetish
There are other practices in the field of BDSM in which diapers can definitely play a role. In white eroticism and also in the SM area of BDSM, diapers are used from time to time and serve either as a hygienic safeguard or as a punishment and humiliation of the wearer.
Here the diaper does not serve as a fetish object, but rather as a tool and toy to fulfill another purpose. The wearer thus benefits erotically not from the diaper itself, but from the humiliation or games that made wearing the diaper necessary.
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