Cum Control is an English term, which is composed of the words Cum (to come to orgasm) and the word Controll, that is, control. This is mainly about the direct control of the male orgasm, which is usually exercised by the partner or dominatrix.
The reason for orgasm control
The reason for this form of control is mostly to be found in the male physiognomy, since men can usually climax only once and then need an individually long break.
Through a targeted control of the male climax, not only the pleasure can be significantly increased, but also, in the optimal case, several climaxes in a row are made possible.
Control of the male climax
The control of the male climax lies mostly with the woman or dominatrix. This can sexually stimulate the man in many ways, but must not allow him to climax. Whether the stimulation with the hand, intense oral sex or even sexual intercourse in the most diverse variants.
In cum control, everything is allowed, provided that the direct stimulation of the man is always canceled before the actual climax. The game of cum control can last for many hours or, with the appropriate control, for example, via a chastity cage, even for several days. The use of a chastity cage for cum control is almost essential in these cases, so that a permanent control of the climax is possible.
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CumControll can lead to significant feelings of pleasure in men, but should always be used with caution and in the right situations.
Men report that after some time, there is a pulling pain in the testicles. This is the right time to use Cum Control to climax. If the man is now brought to climax and directly stimulated further, the man can ideally experience a multiple climax.
Orgasm control of the man
It is in your power to decide when the man comes to orgasm. Maybe it's better that he doesn't come at all? In cum control there are many different ways to torture your partner and keep him chaste.
You can delay the orgasm and you can even forbid it completely. As a third option, there is even an orgasm that will greatly disappoint the chaste.
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How to tell if the orgasm is imminent
So that you don't miss the moment to stop the whole event before your chaste comes, you need to pay close attention. You may need to learn what signs indicate an orgasm first. Pay attention to the man's breathing. In many men, the breath is intermittent or forced. The body tenses up a bit.
Probably the most important indication of an approaching orgasm, however, is the twitching of the penis. If you hold the penis firmly with your hand, you will feel the twitch. You can also put a finger on the perineum of the man. This is between the penis and the anus.
Here you can also clearly hear a twitch. Alternatively, you can also check the twitching directly on the prostate. Insert two fingers anally and position them directly on the prostate.
Delay the orgasm
If you keep delaying the orgasm, this will make the man really hot. He will get wilder and wilder, hoping more and more for the climax. If you notice that he is about to orgasm, just pinch his testicles. The surprising pain will lower the horniness a bit.
You can also squeeze the glans a little harder to prevent the orgasm. You can inflict slight pain on the man to make him not come. This prevents the orgasm, but the horniness is not really lost. You can repeat this several times.
Stimulate until just before orgasm and then just stop or add pleasure pain. You are then free to decide when you want the cum control to end.
Forbid him the orgasm
In the beginning, stimulating and stopping the horniness for a short time is highly recommended during Cum Control. However, if you are advanced, the orgasm can be denied altogether. Stimulate the man as usual until the already mentioned twitching starts.
Stop what is happening and prevent him from finishing it himself. The best way to prevent masturbation is to lock his penis away hard. There are penis cages that are perfect for this purpose.
How to ruin his orgasm
Especially if you want to take revenge for something or you are angry with your partner, Cum Control can benefit you. You have the possibility to allow the orgasm, but ruin it completely. You can give the man an absolutely unsatisfying orgasm.
Bring him to the point that he will come no matter what. At some point, the point is reached that the orgasm is unstoppable. At this exact moment, you press him very hard on the perineum. This causes the urethra to close. The sperm cannot get out. Anal works as well, if you press the urethra with your fingers.
Conclusion - the man suffers and loves it anyway
Cum control is a BDSM practice that usually takes place between sub and dominatrix. The man suffers because he is not allowed to come when he wants to. He can be downright tortured with it. And yet, it is a fetish that numerous men downright love.
Also in domestic bedrooms, between quite normal couples, this fetish finds more and more entrance.
Geht bei mir nicht
Sorry, das funktioniert bei mir gar nicht. Ich komme, wann ich kommen will. Da hilft auch kein ins Sack zwicken oder sonst was. Lediglich ich alleine habe die so genannte Cum Control über mich. Ich hab nicht soooo viel Durchhaltevermögen. Vielleicht funktioniert dieses geilmachen und dann zurückweisen deswegen nicht so recht bei mir. Er steht, er macht seine Arbeit, er spritzt ab! Finde das so auch einfach natürlich. Der Beitrag hier ist dennoch echt interessant zu lesen.
Schwieriges Unterfangen
Wie hier schon geschrieben wurde, das funktioniert nicht. Bei mir geht das auch nicht. Meine Frau kann mir sogar in die Hoden kneifen, um "ihn" wieder runter zu kriegen, ich spritze sie dennoch an. Wenn ich erstmal auf Touren bin, gibt es einfach kein Zurück mehr. ich denke das funktioniert nur, wenn man noch am Anfang der Geilheit steht. Aber wenn er dann wieder "runtergepeitscht" wird, würde bei mir die Lust gänzlich verfliegen. Ich glaube, das Cum Control ist ein recht schwieriges Unterfangen.
Erfordert etwas Übung, bis es klappt
Es erfordert aber schon etwas Übung. Hier klingt es so einfach, wenn man das so liest. Also meine Partnerin und ich haben das mittlerweile schon echt oft gemacht, dieses Cum Control. Es ist auch echt zu empfehlen. Aber liebe Männer seid nicht zu enttäuscht, wenn Ihr eurer Freundin zunächst doch noch entgegenspritzt. Dieses Orgasmus verhindern geht nicht so einfach. Es muss der richtige Zeitpunkt gefunden werden. Zu früh kann es sein, dass er gar nicht mehr möchte. Zu spät, na ja, dann wird es lustig *lach*
Na stimme hier nur halb zu
Also das der Höhepunkt durch das Cum Control intensiver wahrzunehmen ist, stimmt auf jeden Fall. Da stimme ich voll und ganz zu. Dass aber mehrere Höhepunkte hintereinander möglich sind, kann ich nicht bestätigen. Klar, ich kann auch mal 2-mal hintereinander, aber ein bisschen Luft muss schon dazwischen sein. Ich brauche um die 20 Minuten, um noch mal durchstarten zu können. Mehr wie 2-mal ist bei irgendwie auch nicht möglich. Vielleicht ist das ja eine Übungssache, was ich mir aber nicht recht vorstellen kann.