Sex games for more fun in bed

Different sex games and types of games can keep the love life exciting and thrilling. It is important to keep an open mind and to consider your own limits and the limits of your partner. If you are curious and open-minded, you can discover completely new forms of pleasure for yourself.

Sex is fun, releases happiness hormones and is important for a healthy relationship.

Nevertheless, sexual desire must be kept awake and actively played with so that boredom does not set in between the sheets even in longer relationships.

How you enrich your sex life with your partner is of course up to you. We show you ten different sex games with which you can spice up your sex life and with which you will have a lot of fun together.

Sex games No.1: Sextoys

Sex toys are a great enrichment for joint sex and can be used in completely different ways. There are sex toys for men and sex toys for women, toys which you can use during sex and those which give you pleasure before and after. The variety in this area is amazing.

There are suitable toys for you for virtually every desire and every form of satisfaction. If you incorporate sex toys into your own love play and use them extensively, you will not only get to know your partner and your own body better, but you can also awaken many a desire in a more targeted way. Take advantage of the wide selection of sex toys at Steeltoyz and get involved in a few experiments.

You will surely be surprised how intense sex can feel with the right sex toys. Whether it's a cock ring, vibrator, masturbator or dildo, your pleasure will decide the selection.'

Sex games no.2: Self-service

Most people satisfy themselves. This is neither a secret nor particularly surprising. But have you ever let your partner watch you do it? Not only can satisfying yourself in front of each other be extremely exciting, but it can also show your partner how you like it best.

If you watch carefully, you learn a lot about your partner and can improve many things in your own technique. In addition, it is enormously hot to watch the partner, to see his or her pleasure, to hear and, if necessary, to satisfy yourself.

Just try it out. It may seem difficult to overcome at first, but the result will more than delight you.

Sex games No.3: Dirty Talk

Dirty talking is all in the mind. Many of us are inhibited when it comes to this area of pleasure. To let yourself go completely for once, to hurl your own lust at your partner and to reach deep into the box of dirty words is a real overcoming.

But if you manage it and simply impose no limits on yourself during sex, you will be more than thrilled by the effect. Feeling dirty and lustful, moaning all the dirty things and cravings in your partner's face and sounding like you're in a real porn movie can increase your pleasure considerably.

Many men, for example, are thrilled when their partner surprises you with the dirty talk. However, women can also indulge in their lust many times easier if they realize that the partner also gives free rein to his desires with full energy.

Sex games No.4: On demand

This is a particularly exciting game for your partnership. You agree on a fixed period of time - for example a week - in which your partner must be available to you and your sexual desires. If the desire overcomes you, your partner should be available and satisfy you.

Of course, the following applies here: As soon as one of you has no more desire the game is to be terminated immediately. With this game you can, for example, sweeten each other's vacations. But it can be enormously pleasurable if you read, for example, an erotic book, this place captivates you, excites you and takes you and you can ask your partner to satisfy you in the process and this is done in no uncertain terms.

Sex games #5: Ouch!

SM games can be extremely exciting. After all, it doesn't always have to come to hardcore SM games. But a little tighter grip, the one or other flap or suitable SM sex toys can definitely enrich the sex life. Remember that SM or BDSM does not only consist of painful games.
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Role-playing, the game of power and submission and many small elements from these areas can definitely enrich your sex life. Try it out and enjoy the wild ride into new realms of sexuality. Who knows, maybe you will learn something new about yourself or your partner. There are so many different types of play in S&M that you can try out and experience that you can discover new possibilities for many evenings together.

There are also quite a few SM studios that rent out their premises and thus offer you the opportunity to try out the various elements without having to remodel your own apartment.

Sex games No.6: Always at your service

Again, dominance and submission is an important part of the game. In one evening, you get to be completely pampered by your partner. And not only in a sexual way. A soaking bath, delicious champagne or sparkling wine, a cooked dinner are good ways to demonstrate your partner your own devotion.

Massages, caresses and of course sex and satisfaction make this evening a real highlight. The partner should put all their own needs on the back burner for this evening and concentrate entirely on you and your feelings. This game can bring both partners equally much pleasure, as it is no problem to simply take turns on different days.
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However, if dominant and submissive traits are already present, they can of course be experienced especially intensively during such a game.

Sex Games No.7: Playing with the Elements

Heat and cold are not only fun, but can also significantly increase arousal. Ice cubes and candle wax are the easiest way to try this type of game once. If you are blindfolded and waiting to be touched and then confronted with cold or heat, you will find these touches particularly stimulating.

For the candles, please use only real SM candles, which have a lower melting temperature and thus cannot cause burns. So you can enjoy the games safely and with much pleasure. These games are also very popular with bondage games combined, because thus the expectation of the partner can be stimulated much more targeted.

Sex toys made of stainless steel, for example, can also be used at different temperature levels if you bring them to the corresponding desired temperature in a water bath. Even a few degrees difference can influence the effect enormously.

Sex games no.8: When you come, I decide

Control plays an important role in sex. Giving up this control and letting your partner completely determine your own sexual satisfaction can be damn hard, but also enormously horny. It is to spoil the partner or the partner with the fingers, the mouth or with sex toys so that the climax is imminent.

But the redemption may well be a long time coming. Briefly drinking a glass of water or skillfully keeping the partner at this level can become a delicious torment for the passive partner. You alone determine when your partner may come to the redeeming climax.

This is one of the precursors to chastity, where all sexual acts are controlled exclusively by the partner.

Sex games #9: Extraordinary places

Sex in unusual places can be enormously hot and tempting. The threat of a casual onlooker, the adrenaline coursing through your veins, and the unfamiliar surroundings provide a very special thrill and make this sex especially pleasurable.

For the beginning you should choose a place where you do not have to expect many observers. In summer, for example, look for a well-protected area in the forest, which is far enough away from all paths. Of course you can choose many other places, but you should always make sure that you are not too easy to recognize and to see.

Even spacious locker rooms in stores regularly become play places for many men and women who are looking for that special kick.

Sex games no.10: Don't touch this

Just being pampered during sex and foreplay is difficult for many people. As a rule, men and women want to feel their partner, pamper them, caress them and touch them. But this is exactly what you make impossible in this game.

Withdraw skillfully, look for good and safe positions or carefully tie up your partner in case of emergency, when he or she just can't keep their hands off you. This game provides additional excitement and can almost drive your partner crazy.

When exactly you want to surrender to the hands and body of your partner, you alone can determine.

Sex Games No.11: Tease & Denial

Tease & Denial allows you to stall your partner. You don't keep him chaste forever, but you drag it out until he is allowed to come. It's all about getting your partner really hot, but not letting him get it on right away. Walk past him in suspenders when you know he has no time.

Not even a quickie should be possible for him. Just before he has to go to work is a good time. If he comes home afterwards, he will literally pounce on you. You can always be creative with Tease & Denial and always come up with other things to get your partner hot.

It is also allowed to give him a chastity cage, so you make sure that he does not secretly get it himself.

Sex games no.12: Experience anal pleasure

Anal sex in itself is nothing new anymore. However, still not everyone is aware of anilingus. This is a wonderful sex practice that means the same feelings for both sexes. Anilingus is also called rimjob. This is about anus licking.

The anus is full of sensitive nerve endings. Let him lick you and you will see what feelings of pleasure this arouses in you. The tongue can be used in different ways. From vigorous licking to penetration with the tip of the tongue, everything is open to you.

Anilingus is also a good foreplay for the actual anal intercourse. A lot of trust and cleanliness are of course basic requirements for this sex practice.
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Sex games no.13: Try your hand at the Kamasutra

If you really want variety in bed, try the Kama Sutra. Nowadays you don't even need the book. There is the internet. This always offers new excerpts from the ever-popular Kamasutra book. The basic requirement is an unprejudiced attitude towards new things and some flexibility.

It can be advantageous if a yoga course has been taken beforehand. However, many positions also work if you are just a little flexible. Through the Kamasutra you will get to know your body and that of your partner in a whole new way. You will touch parts of your body that have hardly received any attention before.

This is how easy and fast you can rediscover yourself. But be careful, don't start with the most complicated positions right away. It makes sense to always increase.

Sex games No.14: Now the man becomes a woman

Your most secret desire is to have sex in women's clothes? Okay fine, but you are not a woman? Alright, even then you can be granted sex in women's clothing. Many women even share the passion and want to force your man into women's clothing. This is called forced feminization and can bring you a whole new fun in bed.

For the woman, it is nice to be able to feel the soft, special fabrics as only the man does otherwise. For the man, forced feminization means humiliation. He is a man and they do not wear women's clothes. You emasculate your partner and this naturally turns him on. He feels comfortable in the clothes, but is a little ashamed. He wants to be loved. How you do this, you can choose.

Sex games No.15: Animal wild

Let it get animal wild. Whether it's a predatory cat or a submissive dog, there's a lot going on in pet play. You can throw yourself into a sexy catsuit and play the wild feline predator. It's up to your partner to shame you. If you get prickly, he might reach for the whip to tame you.
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As a submissive little dog, on the other hand, you can have a collar and leash put on you directly. Let them gently scratch your belly or educate you with harsh measures. For pet play, there are not only collars, leashes and costumes, but also appropriate anal plugs with animal tails.
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The plugs feature fake hair tails, rods or even curly tails on the outer end. Be animal wild in your very own way.

You see how easy it can be to spice up and enrich your own sex life. Of course, there are no limits to your imagination and our suggestions cover only a very small part of the possibilities. Try to find out which games you enjoy and where your interests lie and then gradually expand your own horizons.

Stay curious about each other and your desire will hardly fall asleep.

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