Both women and men often dream about him. The threesome is considered by many as the fulfillment of deeply cherished sexual desires and fantasies. But not every three-way sex is a success.
If you plan a threesome, you should consider some points. We have worked out the most important questions for you.
Sex in threesomes - different fantasies between man and woman
Most men think of sex in threesomes as sex with two women. Women, on the other hand, very often want to have sex with two men. So, first of all, it is necessary to find a solution with your partner that both of you can be satisfied with. Finally, both partners can also have bi ambitions and first gently sniff into this topic during a threesome.
Clear rules for fewer problems during 3-way sex
If you plan a threesome with your partner, you should not only adhere to certain rules, but also discuss them clearly with all parties involved. The most important rules:
- Always have sex with a condom. Not only for reasons of contraception, but especially as protection against potentially contagious STDs. No matter how well you know the person who wants to enjoy the threesome with you, the trust should not go that far.
- Your partner is always the target of your attention. As exciting as threesome sex is, always take the most intense care of your partner. In addition, the following also applies after sex: Cuddling is always only with your own partner. Clarify this in advance with the person who wants to enjoy the threesome with you.
Different variations of sex in threesomes
Even if the threesome is the smallest possible form of group sex, there are enormous differences. In any case, clarify with all participants how far you want to go. So the third partner can be invited only to watch, but also like to participate if you and your partner want that. In any case, clarify the sexual preferences and taboos of all involved.
It may well escalate the threesome very spontaneously, if, for example, the second man cares mainly about the male partner, but he has absolutely no bi interests in him. Or the second person is into BDSM practices like Ballbusting or has a preference for anal intercourse, which you do not share. Communication is the key word in any threesome.
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Beware of threesomes in some situations
A threesome is not a means to overcome a relationship crisis or to bind your partner to you. In the worst case, a threesome can even lead to a whole new form of jealousy entering the relationship. A healthy and stable relationship should always be the basis for the 3s sex!
