Sex is part of every relationship. But if the sex is bad, then the relationship will suffer at some point. Repeated sex without orgasm leads to frustration, which can then burst out of you very unflattering. So it's better to express your sex wishes instead of foregoing orgasms.
It actually sounds quite simple to express sex wishes. But of course it is not. Everyone has a certain sense of shame. Then you don't want to offend your partner if you suddenly start to criticize and express your wishes. In addition, the right time should be chosen. And finding the right time is a big challenge.
It's best to talk casually
Sex should already play a role at the beginning of the relationship. So it's best to talk about what you like in bed. This way you will quickly find out if you are on the same sexual wavelength.
Of course, it's not a good idea to start right away on the first date. But after the third date, the time for this topic is already ripe. On the first date it would lead in the wrong direction.
Here you should only bring up the subject if you are more interested in hot sex rather than a committed relationship. However, if you have clarified the topic quite at the beginning, the first joint sex is no longer so difficult. After all, it is already known what each of you likes.
Express your wishes during sex
You can express your wishes during sex. However, you must be careful not to be too brisk, you must not complain and correct everything. Your partner also wants to have fun.
So don't become a lust killer when you express your wishes during sex. Many actions are much better than many words. Just show him what you want.
You can really lead him to where he should go. If he caresses your clit too hard, then take his hand and guide him a little. He will quickly understand and respond. In return, he can also guide you a little in the right direction.
If you are bad at talking, you don't have to despair. Many things are easier to write than to say. So, if you lack the courage to talk or show it directly, write a letter to your lover, even if it sounds childish at first, it can save your relationship and your sex life.
