The best blowjob of his life - Guide

The dream of many men is the blowjob. To be spoiled orally simply by the partner or even the partner and to surrender completely to the touches of tongue and lips is enormously pleasurable. Many men call the blowjob as an absolute favorite sexual practice and would not like to do without it.

But a perfect blowjob needs some preparation and practice by the active partner. We show you in our blowjob guide, what a blowjob is, what you should pay special attention to during the blowjob and how you can offer your partner a perfect blowjob.

What is a blowjob?

A blowjob is the stimulation of the penis through the mouth of the partner. During the blowjob, the lips, the tongue, the teeth and the entire oral cavity can be used to bring the partner to climax. The blowjob is also colloquially called "blowing", even though the activity has much more to do with sucking.

Classic blowjob

In the classic blowjob, the man remains passive and allows his partner to pleasure him with his mouth until he climaxes. The blowjob is also called French sex and can be enhanced with a variety of tools. Thus, condoms with flavor are particularly popular with many couples.

But also lubricant with aroma can give the blowjob a whole new quality and make it even more pleasant for the active part. With our blowjob guide you will be able to experience the perfect blowjob.
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5 myths about the blowjob - sex tips

Around the blowjob are some myths, which can hardly be eradicated. So that you do not also fall for these myths and possibly use the wrong technique during the blowjob, we show you in our guide the most popular myths and explain to you where the mistakes lie with these.

Blowjob is a form of safe sex

This myth is completely wrong. Because even during an unprotected blowjob, a wide variety of diseases and infections can be transmitted. Whether HIV, syphilis or gonorrhea: all these diseases can be transmitted easily through oral sex.

So if you haven't known each other for a long time and don't have any tests yet, you should use a condom in any case. Condoms with aroma, such as the Fun Factory Color Moments, are especially pleasant for the blowjob, but the aroma masks the taste of the condom clearly.

Deeper is always better

It is repeatedly claimed that the depth of penetration also plays an important role in the blowjob. At the latest since the movie "Deep Throat" this myth is enormously widespread. While such a deep throat may feel great for the man, as the throat of the active part provides additional tightness, this technique is not easy to learn and achieve.

Gag reflex

This is because the suppository in the throat normally triggers a gag reflex. And let's face it, the feeling is neither particularly sexy nor particularly desirable. Moreover, since most of the nerve endings in the penis are located at the glans, the stimulation from such a deep blowjob is rather low.

Stimulating the glans with lips, tongue and (carefully) teeth is much more effective and can stimulate and excite the man's pleasure much more.

Swallowing is mandatory

Many men love it when their partner swallows the sperm after the blowjob. But this has nothing to do with the actual pleasure gain. Because seriously, once the sperm is in the mouth, the man has long since reached the peak of pleasure. Whether you swallow the sperm or simply spit it out into a cloth, it doesn't really matter anymore for the man's pleasure.

It is much more important that you continue to stimulate the man during the climax and thus guide him to a perfect climax, without you hastily jerking back. Because this is rather a real abortionist and for many men the reason why they prefer swallowing.

Because a woman who claims to swallow will keep the penis in her mouth until the end and thus also stimulate it.

The teeth must not be used during the blowjob

This myth arises mainly from the male fear for their best piece. Because the teeth can quickly cause enormous injuries during a bad blowjob. But gentle nibbling or a light scratching of the teeth on the glans can be enormously stimulating.

Just try it yourself and pay attention to the man's reaction. Such careful stimulation with the teeth can even massively enrich the blowjob.

Blowjobs are a sign of oppression

We owe this myth mainly to the porn industry, which has shaped it through various positions and by treating the woman as a willing piece of meat. In fact, the blowjob in and of itself is simply a sign of affection and love that you want to give to your partner.

Finally, the pleasure is based on reciprocity and also the man will want to return this affection to the woman manifold. So it is a give and take, which can be lived out through different practices and different preferences. By the way, approximately 30 percent of women feel pleasure themselves when they spoil their partner with a blowjob, because this blowjob can trigger a certain feeling of power.

After all, at this moment the ladies are masters of their partner's pleasure and arousal.

Problems with a blowjob

Anyone who has ever tried a blowjob will be familiar with many of the problems listed here. Of course, not all of the problems from our blowjob guide will apply to you, but some of the problems will have you nodding your head in knowledge.

• Long hair can quickly become a problem during a blowjob. If there is no hair elastic within reach, the blowjob often becomes an artistic torture.
• The pubic hair of the man can also become a problem. Pubic hair between the teeth, on the tongue or even in the throat is a real turn-off.
• Even the best blowjob can drag on. After a few minutes of oral gymnastics, a distinct and severe pain in the jaw joint sets in, which gets worse by the minute.
• The tongue also suffers from a prolonged blowjob. The licking and sucking is exhausting work and makes you long for the end of the blowjob.
• One twitch of his pelvis and the tip of his penis pushes dangerously close to your uvula. The following gag reflex is neither sexy nor nice.
• If the man is particularly persistent, the blowjob quickly becomes boring for the woman. Because at some point all techniques are exhausted and you're just waiting for HE to finally finish.
• A blowjob is nice when we offer him from us. However, if your partner loves blowjobs, this gift can often become a chore. Not a nice thought.
• Swallow or spit is a question that you should better ask yourself before the blowjob begins. Because letting the penis slide out of your mouth just before orgasm is often like a cold shower for the man.

The best blowjob of his life!

If you want to really spoil your partner, a blowjob is often the method of choice. Your partner can relax and completely devote himself to his feelings, while you take care of his best piece. With a little preparation and our blowjob guide, you can give your partner your full attention and direct and guide his desire at will.

Start the blowjob best with a joint shower or with a relaxing bath for your partner. This not only ensures relaxation, but also the cleanliness of his best piece. After all, you should also have your fun and not be disgusted by him.

If you shower together, you can even start the blowjob in the shower and give him a taste. In any case, he will not get any cleaner. However, if you feel like a spontaneous blowjob, you can simply put a condom on your partner.

Especially condoms with aroma offer you a good possibility to cover the taste of the rubber and to increase the fun factor for you.

A comfortable position is important

A blowjob is especially hard on the muscles of the jaw and neck. If your partner lies on his back and you spoil him from above, this will put a lot of strain on your neck muscles in the long run. In any case, it is more relaxed if you kneel in front of your partner and thus spoil him with the blowjob.

Find a pleasantly soft cushion for your knees so that they are not put under additional strain in this position. Now you can take care of his best piece in peace. Try different positions to find the best solution for you.

Whether the man stands, sits or lies down can significantly influence the angle and the possibilities during the blowjob.

Take your time and vary your technique

Even if many women hardly believe it: men also appreciate a certain amount of foreplay. So take your time with the blowjob and do not start directly at his best piece. For example, slowly work your way down his body and cover it with kisses.

Stroke his skin, run your fingertips over his body and circle his pleasure muscle. This foreplay does not have to last extremely long, but it can significantly increase the man's sexual tension and thus also significantly shorten the duration of the blowjob.

Once you have reached his best piece, you should vary your techniques and tease him in different ways. Especially the glans and the frenulum - the ligament at the back of the glans - are particularly sensitive and often react to the lightest touches.

With your lips and tongue, you can already trigger enormously intense feelings here without taking him directly into your mouth.

Use your hands for more feeling

When you take the penis into your mouth for the blowjob, the depth of penetration is often not really important. Because the main stimulation comes from the play of your tongue and the sucking effect that you trigger. However, it is helpful to gently embrace the penis shaft with your hand and thus support the movements of your head.

For the man it feels more intense, because he has the feeling to penetrate deeper into you. But even without the hand on the member, you should not let your hands become idle during the blowjob. There are many erogenous zones in the intimate area of the man, which you can pamper with your fingers and hands during the blowjob.

Gently stroke his testicles, slide your fingertips over the insides of his thighs or caress his buttocks. If you and your partner want to, you can also stimulate the man's prostate with a finger or a suitable prostate stimulator during the blowjob. However, make sure to use plenty of lubricant. Many men talk about an enormously intense orgasm when the prostate massage is rounded off with a blowjob.

Blowjob and the use of teeth

Teeth and blowjob are a delicate combination. Many men are afraid of hurting themselves when they feel their partner's teeth during the blowjob. When you take the man deep in your mouth and suck on the penis and move your head, you should protect the teeth with your lips. Because here the use of the teeth is rather unsuitable.

When gently pampering the glans of the shaft with lips and tongue, on the other hand, you can gently use your teeth to intensify the stimulation even more. Just pay attention to your partner's reactions and adjust your technique accordingly. Deep throat, on the other hand, is a technique that requires a lot of practice.

Because you have to learn to suppress the gag reflex so that the man can practically push into your throat. If you want to do this and the technique excites you and your partner, you can practice with a cucumber or a sex toy, for example, and approach it slowly. In this way, you will become less sensitive to the gag reflex over time and can spoil your partner especially deeply and intensively.

Swallow or spit: The Gretchen question

Sperm is not particularly tasty, but rather salty and slightly bitter. Therefore, you should consider beforehand whether you want to swallow or spit out the sperm. A handkerchief can help you to get rid of the sperm quickly. Important for the man is not necessarily whether you swallow, but that you pull the blowjob through to the end.

Because to let the penis slide out of the mouth before the orgasm or when it is reached is a real option only in porn movies. For the man, this rather means that he is not stimulated any further at the exact moment of his climax and the orgasm is therefore much less intense than he would have expected from the blowjob.

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