The spanking
"I'm about to spank you" sounds like a threat to many people. But an increasing part of the population associates such a sentence with tingling eroticism and crackling tension. Because spanking, i.e. the pleasurable beating or being beaten, is becoming increasingly popular.
What forms of spanking there are, what tools you can use and how spanking differs from person to person, that we want to explain to you here.
The term spanking
A popular means of chastisement is spanking, i.e. hitting your partner with your hand or with various tools.
The active and passive pleasure of spanking
Spanking can and should give pleasure and lust to both partners. Both the actively spanking partner and the spanked partner can feel different forms of pleasure. There are, among others, sadists and masochists who love and practice spanking mainly because of the pain.
For most people, however, pain is not an end in itself, but only a means. The dominance or the submission becomes particularly clear with the physical chastisement.
The pleasure of spanking
The pleasure in spanking occurs on two levels. On the one hand, there are many people who feel pleasure from the pain caused by spanking. These often look for an increase in sensations and like to be spanked with various devices and tools.
Paddles, crops and whips are all the rage here and are very popular for increasing sensations. The second component in spanking is more emotional and also located in the BDSM sector. The spanked partner enjoys the submissive role, enjoys being reprimanded and being absorbed in the submissive role.
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The active part in spanking is also affected by this kind of pleasure. To punish the partner and to make him submissive can trigger an enormous swing of sexual pleasure. Those who mainly love the power imbalance in spanking usually need less equipment and often no increase in intensity to gain their pleasure from playing together.
Important spanking tips for beginners
If you want to try spanking with your partner for the first time, there are some points you should consider in any case. For one, communication is especially important in the beginning.
While with increasing experience toys like blindfolds and mouth gags can be used and increase the tension, you should be able to communicate easily at the beginning. Because each person has a different pain threshold and different particularly pain-sensitive areas. You must approach these areas slowly and carefully so that the game is and remains pleasurable for both partners. In any case, start slowly and carefully.
Start by stroking the desired areas of skin and prepare your partner for spanking through physical contact. For the beginning, spanking with the open hand is recommended in any case. You can always come back to sex toys like paddles or whips. At first, only lightly tense and pay attention to the reactions of your partner.
The line between pain and pleasure is still very narrow, especially in the beginning, and should only be crossed very carefully. Once you know your partner's reaction, you can vary the intensity of the spanking as you wish and feel free to increase it.
Popular spanking positions
Spanking can be done on different parts of the body, but the butt is one of the classics, which is equally appreciated by women and men. Two different positions are particularly suitable for such spanking. On the one hand, you can simply put your partner over your knee.
This way you have your partner perfectly under control and you can control his or her movements as well as directly feel the reactions to the spanking. This position is also particularly humiliating, which again significantly increases the psychological component of shame in spanking.
Alternatively, you can also use other positions, which also provide good access and are correspondingly exposing. Standing with your butt sticking out or on all fours with your head on the ground and your butt easily accessible are both popular positions for spanking.
With all the positions mentioned, you can also combine spanking with other erotic acts and thus offer a mixture of carrot and stick.
Sex toys for spanking
If your own hand is not enough, or you just want to make the game a little more flexible, you can extend spanking with various tools. The classic one, which is not suitable for everyone because of its high pain potential, is the hairbrush.
Much better and more effective is the use of paddle, paddle and whip to make the game more interesting and diverse. For a very special kick, you can provide your partner with a blindfold and thus significantly increase their tension again. Finally, your partner can never know when the next punishment will happen.
Also the use of a gag can increase the tension and make the role play even more intense.
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Dose the power correctly
If you want to start spanking as an active part without your own experience, you should learn to control your power. Because strokes in spanking can quickly be too strong and overwhelm your partner. Always start with light strokes, if only to warm up the skin and muscles.
You won't get that red butt you've seen in one video or another, but you won't do any damage either. Pay attention to the feedback of the passive partner and only then increase the intensity and strength if necessary.
This is especially true if you use a tool like a paddle or a hairbrush for spanking. Because these tools are usually much less compliant than your hand and can therefore cause more pain.
After spanking - the aftercare
No matter if you are the active or the passive part, after the spanking and after the end of the session you should take care of the red spots on your butt. Cooling cream or even a cool shower can quickly bring relief.
In addition, the last traces can be removed very well and relatively safely. Use the possibility in any case, so that your skin can really look forward to the next spanking session. After all, spanking is quite a strain and should not be underestimated.
Spanking macht richtig geil
Spanking macht mich richtig geil! Es gibt in so vielen alltäglichen Situationen die Möglichkeit, mit Spanking zu beginnen. Oftmals reicht es schon, mit dem Partner zusammen Mittagessen zu kochen. Dann hängt dort verlockenderweise ein Geschirrtuch. Etwas zusammengezwirbelt kann das ordentlich auf dem Hintern zwicken. Ein kleiner Spaßgeht dann schön in sexuelle Lust über. Wir haben aber auch ein ganzes Arsenal an Toys, wie Peitschen, Riemen und Co. Abwechslung der Toys bringt immer wieder neue Lust zum Vorschein. Spanking wird gewiss niemals langweilig.