What is BDSM and bondage?
BDSM is the abbreviation for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission and Sadism & Masochism. Bondage refers to a person being tied up or restrained, while Discipline stands for punishment.
Dominance refers to a person being in control, while submission means that someone submits. Sadism refers to the pleasure of pain and masochism to the pleasure of submission and sensations of pain.
Together, these aspects form a world that is exciting and fulfilling for many people. However, it is important that everyone involved respects their boundaries and that everything happens voluntarily and with pleasure.
Tips and inspiration for beginners
Set your boundaries:
Before you get involved in the world of BDSM and bondage, it is important that you know your boundaries and communicate them. You can do this, for example, by agreeing a 'safeword' that you will use if you become uncomfortable.
Use the right equipment: Invest in high-quality restraints, whips, etc. to avoid injuries. Find out beforehand exactly which equipment is suitable for which practices.
Use condoms:
When trying out sexual practices, you should always use condoms to avoid STI's.
Practice:
Especially with more complex practices, it is important that you approach them slowly and carefully. Practice with gentle versions first and then gradually increase.
Respect the rules of BDSM:
There are certain rules and etiquette that should be followed in the BDSM community. Find out about these and make sure you adhere to them.
Use safewords:
As mentioned earlier, it's important that you agree on a safeword to let each other know if you become uncomfortable or want to end the session.
Enjoy the experience:
Remember that BDSM and bondage are a way to live out and explore your sexuality. Have fun and enjoy the experience!
Communicate with your partner:
The be-all and end-all in the BDSM world. Make sure you talk to your partner about your desires, preferences and boundaries to ensure an enjoyable and safe experience.