The slave contract as a sample - this is how it can look like

In the BDSM area, a safeguard is often very important. Masters and slaves usually resort to a joint slave contract, which is signed by both the top and the sub and in which rights and obligations in the BDSM relationship are precisely defined.

We provide you with such a slave contract as a sample. You can modify it according to your needs or even delete and add parts. We have designed the draft to be gender-neutral. This way you can adapt your slave contract to your situation.

Be aware, however, that a slave contract has no legal consequences, since contractual interference with individual personal rights is actually not possible. The contract should mainly define the limits and the possibilities of a BDSM relationship.

For this reason, both sides should already have experience with each other. Finally, some limits and also options arise only from the joint play. The slave contract thus becomes a joint declaration of will, which is already part of the game and defines it in its basic features.

The slave contract - the preamble

This contract defines the relationship between Ms. _______ and Mr. _______. Mrs. / Mr. _________ is called and defined in the context of the contract from now on as a slave / slave. Mr / Mrs _______ on the other hand as master or mistress.

In the context of this contract the slave / slave lets herself be enslaved by the master / mistress of her own free will and free will. She / He confirms with this contract that she / he is submissive by nature and wishes this enslavement. The exact rights, duties and also taboos of the slave are defined exactly both in the contract itself and in its appendices.

With this contract the signatory becomes the slave of the master / mistress and is obliged to him / her as property. The master / mistress accepts this as his own slave / slave. Both parties enter into this contract of their own free will and with full awareness of the rights and obligations it entails. By signing the contract, the master / mistress receives all rights and full responsibility to the slave / slave.

The duties of the slave / the slave

- The slave is unconditionally subjected to the master / mistress. She / He will serve Him / Her, obey Him / Her and serve Him / Her with love, joy and devotion.
- The sexuality of the slave belongs from this point only to the master / mistress. Highlights are only possible with the express permission of the master / mistress. The slave / The slave has to touch her / his own sexual organs only for hygienic purposes.
- The slave / The slave undertakes to follow the will of the master / the mistress full obedience and to submit to all orders and rules of the master / the mistress.
- The slave puts her / his body to the master / the mistress for the satisfaction of his / her sexual desires at any time.
- The slave / The slave wants to be trained as a servant / servant always further and be improved in his / his bondage.
- The slave / The slave actively works on himself / herself to further perfect himself / herself in his / her enslavement and to be a better servant to the master / the mistress.
- The slave must always answer the master / mistress openly and honestly. This applies especially to questions about personal sensitivity.
- The slave / The slave always strives for the welfare of the master / the mistress and does everything to make him / her happy.
- The slave / The slave takes responsibility for the necessary prevention of pregnancy.
- The slave trusts the master / mistress and gives himself / herself voluntarily into his / her hands.
- The slave / The slave defines in the appendix of the slave contract her / his taboos and limits and agrees to the practices not excluded.

The obligations of the master / mistress

The master / mistress is also subject to certain rules in a BDSM relationship. These serve the safety and anonymity of the slave / the slave in public.
- The master / the mistress guarantees that he / she will never exceed the limits and taboos of the slave / the slave, which were defined in the appendix, and respect them.
- The Master / Mistress guarantees that he / she will never misuse the rights granted in the contract.
- The Master / Mistress guarantees the safety and the physical and psychological integrity of the slave during all sessions. He / She will thus always refrain from any action that may cause permanent traces or damage to the body, mind or soul of the slave.
- The Master / Mistress undertakes to pick up the Slave / Slave after a session and to promote his/her physical and mental health.
- The Master / Mistress is responsible for ensuring that the slave is trained for his/her duties and tasks in the best possible way.
- The Master / Mistress undertakes never to carry out the chastisement of the slave out of a feeling of anger or under the effect of alcohol and drugs.
- The master / mistress is obliged to use the natural dispositions of the slave / slave and to develop them further. Only in this way can a slave / a slave her / his submissive disposition always continue to develop and perfect.
- The master / mistress always and absolutely protects the slave / slave from third parties both in the community and in public.
- The Master / Mistress guarantees the anonymity of the slave and keeps the contract and its agreements secret from other people.

General rules

- The master / mistress determines the rules of the common time. This means that the master / mistress can freely define rules and regulations. In addition, the punishment for a mistake or violation of the rules is also freely defined by the master / mistress.
- The master / mistress may give the slave any name he / she likes. The slave / The slave has to listen to this name at any time. The master / the mistress can change the name freely as desired.

- The master / mistress can define certain short commands, which the slave / the slave must know and execute. For example, a snap of the fingers can mean that the slave / the slave should take a certain position.

Communication rules for the slave / the slave

- The slave / The slave always remains submissive in their communication
- The word "No" must not be addressed to the master / the mistress.
- All commands and requests from the master / mistress are to be answered with a "Yes, master" / "Yes, mistress".
- In any direct sentence to the master / mistress, words such as "master", "mistress" or "master" are to be used.
- The slave shall address the master / mistress in every statement.
- The slave speaks of himself/herself only in the third person. The correct designation is "slave", "servant" or "serf". The personal pronoun "I" is now only used in leisure time and towards outsiders.
- The slave should keep a record of all experiences. This applies to punishments as well as rewards. The diary should be written anonymously.

Punishments and chastisements for offenses and transgressions

- Master / Mistress and slave / slave hereby agree that the slave / slave may be punished for mistakes and transgressions by the master / mistress. These punishments are part of the submission and serve to better train the slave / the slave and to make him / her more submissive.
- The master / mistress is entitled at any time to chastise the slave / the slave at will and at his / her own discretion. The basis for this are the taboos defined in the appendices.
- The master / mistress is authorized to restrict the slave by bondage and restraints in his / her ability to move. This can be part of the punishment or additionally complement the punishment.
- The slave may attempt to influence the severity of the punishment or plead for mercy by making sounds of pain or crying. This may or may not have any effect on the punishment.
- If the master / mistress wishes, the slave must willingly accept a gag and be gagged voluntarily.
- The master / mistress is entitled to test the slave's pain limits. For this purpose he / she can use all devices and possibilities clearly defined in the appendix.
- The slave / The slave must, if requested to do so, define the pain on a level from 1 to 10. Thus, the master / mistress can slowly approach the limits of endurance.
- The slave / The slave can interrupt the chastisement in case of pain or for other reasons at any time. For this a common Safeword is agreed upon. If the slave pronounces this word, the master / mistress must immediately stop any chastisement and free the slave / slave.
- If the slave is gagged and therefore cannot pronounce the safeword, he/she holds a safe object in his/her hand. If he/she drops it, this is also considered as an abortion of the session.
- The master / mistress is obliged to observe the safeword or the corresponding safe object and to react immediately.

The body of the slave / the slave

- With the body care the slave is subordinate to the desires of the master / the mistress. This / This determines, among other things, the body hair of the slave / the slave, which she / he has to fulfill.
- The slave / The slave has to keep her / his body through sports and exercises attractive and flexible to please the master / the mistress through different sex positions or through dances.
- The slave has to present her / his body naked to the master / mistress once a day. This can be done face to face, but also by video or photo documentation.
- The slave / The slave always takes a submissive attitude to the master / the mistress. As a rule, the slave / the slave kneels on the floor and awaits her / his orders.
- If a slave leaves the room, he/she has to inform the master / mistress or ask for permission. In doing so, the slave must state the reason for which he/she wishes to leave the room.

Clothing regulations

- The slave is subject to a strict dress code determined by the master / mistress. At joint meetings she / he must always adhere to this dress code and wear the clothes in advance of the meeting.
- The master / mistress determines whether further accessories are necessary for certain occasions or certain situations. The slave / The slave obeys these clothing instructions quickly and without delay.

Time limits of the slave contract

- A common probationary period for the contract is agreed upon. This probationary period shall be __ days. If neither party withdraws from the contract within this period, the contract shall become permanent and may be terminated only at the request of a participant.
- The slave contract is considered to be indefinite in time and place and should last and be honored for a lifetime if possible.
- The contract is based on the Roman tradition of the slave contract. This means that master / mistress and slave / slave exchange roles for one day a year. This day is determined when the contract is signed or can be mutually determined by both parties. All rules of the contract apply on this day with reversed signs.

- The slave is granted free time by the master as part of the contract. This time is released for family and professional obligations. The slave does not have to take into account the master / mistress in their appointments, but must inform him / her in good time about scheduling obligations. In the free time all other duties of the slave rest, so that she/it can pursue her/its/their normal activities without restrictions.

Discretion between master / mistress and slave / slave

- Discretion is an important cornerstone of trust. Consequently, all contents of the contract and the contract itself must be kept strictly confidential.
- Film recordings and also photographs, in which one of the involved persons are to be recognized, must be treated with absolute discretion. This means keeping these files inaccessible to other people, not posting them on the web or sharing them with other people. Such photographs require the express permission of the person photographed.
- Upon termination of the contract, all persons involved agree to destroy all existing identifiable recordings immediately and without exception.

- Should the master / mistress commit sustained or clear violations of taboos and other contractual agreements, the slave / slave may seek support and advice. Important and good contacts here are, among others, the various women's counseling centers and also the BDSM emergency phone Mayday.
- Since the contract is not legally binding, all parties involved undertake to sue individual points of the contract in court. There is a moral obligation to keep the contract and live it with your partner.

Signatures

This slave contract is concluded by both parties in full possession of their mental powers. The contract is concluded without coercion and in mutual recognition of personal rights and personal limits. With my signature I thus declare that I will abide by the obligations and rules of the contract, which I have fully read and understood.

Signature of the master / mistress:

Signature of the slave / slave

Attachments and details

Taboos and desired or possible practices

Taboos are crossed out, permitted or desired practices remain in the slave contract:

Anal intercourse
Bondage

Discipline by the following means and methods:

Brush
Ice
Crop
Hand
Paddle
Whip
Cane

Wax games with BDSM candles

Spanking taboos:
Face
Hands
Soles of feet
Buttocks
visible marks

Sex toys:
anal plug
dildo
vibrator
fisting toys
fucking machines

humiliation verbal
humiliation psychological

marking as slave in session
marking as slave in public

marking by:
branding
tattoo

fellatio / blowjob
deepthroat
with mouth spreader

finger play
fisting
sexual intercourse

cage posture
masturbation on command

outdoor sex
petplay
public

passive participation in BDSM events (spectators)

demonstrations as a slave in closed company
demonstrations as a slave in public

dress code for The Slave / The Slave

Forbidden clothes during meetings with the master:

Suits
Trousers
Trouser suits
Dresses
Skirts
Shoes or boots without heels
... with a heel of at least _ centimeters

The following is prescribed as clothing for joint meetings:

Blindfold
Collar
Corset
Leather cuffs
Irritating lingerie
Black stockings
Suspenders

Other items may be added according to individual need.

Notes to the sample slave contract

As already mentioned, this is a sample that can be changed by you and your partner at any time and adapted to your personal situation. So you have a basis before your eyes, according to which rules and duties a BDSM relationship between master and slave can run and which points can be recorded in such a contract.

Especially the appendices allow you to define many points very precisely. This is important if you know very well about your personal taboos and boundaries and want to play along these boundaries. The more precisely these are delimited and defined, the easier it is for the gentleman to observe these boundaries exactly.