Dirty Talking - How do I say it right?

Dirty Talk

"Come on, tell me something dirty!" Many of us have dreamed of this phrase, perhaps heard it ourselves or said it ourselves. Even though the eyes and the sense of touch play an important role in sexuality, our other senses are also involved in many ways.

Dirty Talking is one of the most beautiful and exciting ways to raise your sexuality to a new level and to create new excitement between the sheets even in longer relationships. A good dirty talk stimulates, makes you want more and creates desire in the most diverse situations.

And that without sounding like a cheap porn copy. Because dirty talk may also have a certain level and enrich the desire of both partners.

What is dirty talking anyway?

Dirty talking is the form of conversation, which is mainly in a sexual context and often includes "dirty" words. Phrases such as "Come on, take me finally" fall under the umbrella term dirty talking as well as the announcement of the following sexual acts.

"I'm about to tie you up and suck all your juice out"

is just as much a dirty talk as the request "Mistress, please put the plug in my naughty slave butt".The possibilities in dirty talking are enormously varied and can make any form of sexuality much more exciting and thrilling.

Because through a Dirty Talk the roles can be lived out and enjoyed even more intensively. A mistress is more authentic with the right tone, a sub can express his or her submissiveness and role plays of the most diverse kind hardly get going without dirty talking.

But all beginnings are hard. If you want to spice up your love life with some dirty talk, you should first make a few considerations.

Dirty Talking and SM: Perfect Partners

Especially in BDSM, dirty talking is a great way to add to the tension of a situation and intensify the role play.

Of course, a cool silence can also drive the tension up enormously, but dirty talking adapted to the role can increase the pleasure even more. Especially in all areas of use in which feedback from the passive part is of enormous importance.

Whether when using Anal toys, spanking, fisting or conventional anal intercourse. Here, phrases like "Give it to me right in the ass!", "Come on, beg me to give it to you" and similar statements can offer enormous explosive power.

Both the active and the passive part can benefit enormously from such a possibility and enjoy the game even more intensively.

Finally, you don't have to fall out of your role for a feedback, but you can live out this role even more intensively in dirty talking. No matter if as a slave, as a naughty schoolgirl, as a recruit at the muster or as a patient at the strict doctor.

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How to integrate dirty talking into your love life

The first overcoming to dirty talking is certainly not easy. After all, you first have to jump over your shadow and discover a new world for yourself. Furthermore, it is important that your partner also likes this form of sexuality and feels attracted to dirty talking.

However, you can be almost sure that it only takes a little effort to discover a whole new form of pleasure in dirty talking. It is best to discuss the topic of dirty talking calmly and above all without a sexual background. Because every person is different and wants to hear or not hear different things.

So you should first clarify your taboos. What's the point if you are called the typical animal names during sex, but they turn you off rather than on? Once the boundaries for dirty talking are set, you can act much more calmly and concentrate on yourself and your sensations during sex.

Once you've overcome the first hurdle, you'll quickly realize how natural dirty talking feels.

Dirty Talking in practical use

Just imagine for a moment: You are handcuffed to the bed or even a pillory and don't know what to expect now. Your partner can of course be quiet and leave you in this state of expectation. This of course has its appeal.

But if now your counterpart stands in front of you with the tube Anal-sliding gel in his hand and announces to you with a big smile that "a plug is about to be pushed into your horny slave/slave ass" your excitement will make an enormous jump.

"Oh, are you tight today"

Also a "Oh, are you tight today", when a finger penetrates cheekily into you, while the gag makes it impossible for you to speak or react, increases the pleasure many times over. Just let your imagination run wild and think about what phrases you would like to hear or simply like to say.

From a simple "My God, you're big today" during sex to cheers, announcements and even threats can enrich sex many times over. Feel free to comment on what you're thinking of doing and thus let your partner in on your thoughts.

"You will now wear the plug until you have satisfied me orally" can act as an incentive as well as a threat and increase the pleasure for both partners in the long term.

What you should pay attention to in any case of dirty talking

It doesn't matter whether it's normal sex, BDSM or other forms of sexuality. It is always important that you act according to firm limits and do not overdo it. Of course, you can devalue your partner in a role play and dub them accordingly.

But it should never become seriously insulting or directly focus on the weaknesses and vulnerabilities of your partner. Because even if it can increase the pleasure in dirty talking: Some words can not be forgotten even after the game and can have negative effects.

For this reason, make sure that the taboos of you and your partner are not exceeded even in the frenzy of dirty talking. After all, you have set up these taboos for a reason.

However, if you stick to these simple basic rules, you can use dirty talking to revitalize your sexuality and make it more lively.

You will love Dirty Talking because

• Dirty Talking can create completely new tensions
• Dirty Talking can allow you new ways of sexuality
• it allows you to express your sexual desires clearly
• You can also give and demand direct feedback in a game
• it can be integrated into a wide variety of sexual practices
• It allows you to express and address parts of your head cinema in a suitable situation
• it adds a whole new dimension to your role play.

Dirty Talking will enrich your love life through

• more thrills in your sexuality
• a new openness with your partner
• more erotic tension in many sexual practices

Dirty talking on different levels

Dirty Talk can take place in many different ways. It can accompany you in your whole everyday life. Honestly, something like this spices up your life well. You always feel like you are in a certain high thanks to dirty talking.

Use Dirty Talking for example whenever you are stressed. You'll be in a good mood again in no time. Trouble at work? Then take a single minute, call your loved one and say just one sentence on the phone.

A dirty phrase, a phrase that hints at what you plan to do with him after work. For example, the sentence might be

"Tonight you will be ridden my horny stud."

Combine dirty talking with fetishes

The dirty talk in itself, is yes a little fetish. It is a nice, dirty, but still harmless fetish. Many live it out without knowing that it is a fetish at all. But just when it makes you especially hot to have dirty talks, you have exactly this fetish.

You can use dirty talking in different situations. It can be wonderfully combined with other fetishes. Tease & Denial, for example, is a fetish where you get your partner really hot and then make him squirm. This works especially well with dirty talk.

Walk past him, whisper in his ear that you don't wear underwear and then go to the hairdresser, shopping or whatever other appointments you have. It is only a small sentence, but it can make a big difference. Especially if you've been getting your partner hot for a while and haven't really let him get into it yet, dirty talk will make him extra hot.

Dirty talk can also be combined well in role-playing games. In nurse or doctor games, sayings like, "Let me suck your fever thermometer" or

"I think I need an injection"

go down very well.

In the second sentence, the hand may then gladly move to the best piece of the man, so that he does not get it wrong.
Also a Domina leads Dirty Talk with you. Here sentences like: "Kneel down you dog." count to dirty talking.

Humiliating Dirty Talking

Domina games always have a dominant and a humiliated part. This is where humiliating dirty talking comes into play. As a dominatrix you show your sub what to do. You tell him what to do and what not to do. Now it often goes along with insults.

"You dirty little shoe licker"

could be such a sentence, for example. "You no-good, horny piece of shit." can also be considered dirty talk. With humiliating dirty talking, care must always be taken not to go too far. At best, it should be agreed beforehand what is desired and what is not possible at all.

Dirty Talking in a different way

Do not always pronounce your sentences. Use also gladly times different possibilities. These could be small pieces of paper that you hide in the wallet of your partner. Since without technology hardly what goes, you can also use this.

Write SMS and Whatsapp messages. In the current age of technology, even relevant pictures count as dirty talking. You could photograph a part of your body and send it to your partner's cell phone.

But be careful:

Whatsapp, Facebook and Co

are not necessarily safe ways to send such pictures.

If you want to enjoy and experience dirty talking yourself, there is nothing to stop you. You can also use Dirty Talking with different sex toys to increase their effect and pleasure even more.

At Steeltoyz you will find a rich selection of sex toys, which you can combine with dirty talking. Choose something suitable and enjoy the new thrill in your love life.

Because you can use Dirty Talking always and almost everywhere. Whisper dirty talk in your partner's ear while you are shopping or at a party. You will be surprised what intense reactions you can trigger with Dirty Talking with your partner .

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