Doggy style is one of the most popular sex positions and offers a variety of ways to increase the pleasure and intimacy between you and your partner. However, although many couples are familiar with this position, there are some pro tips that can help you get the most out of this exciting position. In this guide, you'll learn everything you need to know to perfect the doggy style and take your experience to the next level.
Why the doggy style is so popular
The doggy style is often described as one of the most intense positions, as it allows for deep penetration and at the same time makes it easier for the dominant partner to take control.
It also offers plenty of scope for creative variations, which makes this position particularly versatile. With access to the passive partner's back and the ability to control the pressure and pace, doggy style is perfect for couples who want variety and more intense moments.
Professional tips for the perfect doggy style
1. The right preparation
As with any position, preparation can make all the difference. Good foreplay helps to get both partners in the right mood. Take the opportunity to show your partner that you understand their needs. A few gentle touches or soft kisses on the back can go a long way before you move on to doggy style.
2. Use the right height
The height and position of your passive partner is crucial for comfort and intensity. A popular pro tip is to place a pillow under the passive partner's hips to elevate the pelvic region. This makes entry easier and ensures deeper penetration while the active partner remains in control.
3. Lubricant for a smooth experience
For added smoothness, a good quality lubricant is essential. It reduces friction and increases the sensation of pleasure for both partners. We recommend the BIOglide anal lubricant from Steeltoyz - particularly gentle and organic, which makes it perfect for longer sessions.
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4. Take control
In doggy style, the active partner has control over the pace and depth. Use this control to add variety to the experience. Alternate between deep, slow thrusts and faster, shallower movements. It can be helpful to hold your partner by the hips to better control the movements.
5. Use your hands
During doggy style, the hands often remain unused - but that doesn't have to be the case! Your partner's back is a sensitive erogenous zone that is easily overlooked. Gently stroke or massage the lower back, or perform gentle spanking techniques with a high-quality paddle from the Steeltoyz range.
6. Communication is the key
Even though doggy style is a position that allows for less eye contact, communication is essential. Ask your partner how they feel to ensure that the position remains comfortable and pleasurable for both of you.
Variations of the doggy style
If the classic doggy style becomes too monotonous for you, there are numerous variations you can try out to make the experience more exciting:
1. The "Lazy Doggy"
In this variation, the passive partner lies on their stomach while the active partner remains in a slightly elevated position. This version is less intense, but ideal for longer sessions or as a transition between different positions.
2. The "standing doggy"
Here, the passive partner stands with their upper body bent forward while the active partner stands behind them. This variation is particularly suitable for spontaneous moments or a quick, intense session.
3. Doggy with restraints
BDSM enthusiasts can combine the doggy style with handcuffs or a collar from the Steeltoyz range to make the game of control and devotion even more intense.
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Important aspects for beginners
1. Not too deep, not too fast
For beginners, it is important to take the doggy style slowly. Penetration that is too deep or too fast can be painful, especially if the passive partner is not yet fully relaxed.
2. Take breaks
If one of the partners is not comfortable or the position becomes uncomfortable in the long run, it is okay to take a break and reposition yourself. The aim is to keep both partners in a comfortable, pleasurable situation.
3. Use supportive tools
For beginners, it can be helpful to use various sex toys to intensify the experience. A plug or a small vibrator, combined with the doggy style position, can significantly increase pleasure.
Conclusion
The doggy style is an extremely versatile and pleasurable position that can become a real highlight in your sex life with the right techniques and tips. Regardless of whether you already have experience or are trying out the position for the first time - by making small adjustments and using products such as BIOglide anal lubricant or the paddle from Steeltoyz, you can make the experience much more intense.
